Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am a young handsome man who is attracted to a lot of ladies. Unfortunately, whenever I propose to them, they refuse and make fun of me.
This situation has seriously affected me psychologically, and I am beginning to shy away from ladies. I find it difficult to understand why the ladies turn down my proposal.
I am worried. How do I go about this?
Your outward look should automatically draw ladies to you, however, this is not the case in your situation.
It is possible you have a peculiar behaviour which drives the ladies away from you. You must, therefore, search yourself thoroughly to find out what you are doing wrong and amend your life.
It is also necessary for you to take note of the caliber of ladies you approach. You must ensure that those you propose to are ladies who are within your means.
If you attempt proposing to ladies who are above your class, then you should be ready to entertain their outright rejection and ridicule.
On the contrary, do not worry, keep on searching because you will definitely find your lover one day.